Children need us . . .

10 09 2011

And not in the way that we normally hear about, although there are certainly unfortunate children who need our monetary help around the world. Today, however, I saw something that got me thinking about the one thing all children need and mostly don’t get, especially in America.

I am talking about nature role models.

As I walked in my (sub)urban townhome complex today, I spied two small children milling about a uniform patch of grass under a tree. They seemed to be searching for some fun and adventure in that dull spot, as they restlessly combed the grass together. I heard their parents loudly talking through the open townhouse door nearby.

What those children need is a parent, relative or family friend to show them the fun, the adventure, the curiosities and surprises they seek. I see this often, especially so close to a city, where the suburb is really just an extension of urban nature exclusion. In homogenizing our environments for comfort, we have sterilized them of the things children intuitively know they need.

So, the next time you are around children listlessly searching for that experience they can’t define; the next time they seem antsy or declare, “I’m bored,” take them outside  and play, even if all you have is a dull patch of grass.  Look at every bug and interesting leaf. Let the children lead – they just need an adult to be excited along with them. The future of our world is, in that moment, in your own capable hands.

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11 09 2011
Dr Schmoyer

…My wife and I were discussing a related concern just yesterday: that children today are learning to socially reference many inappropriate and available role models, in addition to their parents, and that often they are following the lead of poor models…this certainly impacts their choices for activity [whether to go out or stay in]…

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